I've hear from someone that its possible to...ahem...make love to Raven when her reaction to you reaches a certain point (some new dialog option appears or somehting like that). Is it when her reaction is "love"? If yes, how to make her love me? Right now she's just "courteous". Is killing and resurrection the only way and if it is, does "resurrection" with a tech drug like revitalizer have the same effect? P.S. No, I'm not sexually frustrated enough to be desperate for sex with computer game characters. It's just in all my party the only one who "loves" me is Loghaire and its a bit...uh...disturbing
Yes, you must wait. Is not something you can do whenever you want... eh? Ok, maybe after the game, but you cannot keep playing so I don't know. I can spoil when it happens if you want... but is not big deal. Ah, and it's worse when Virgil or Magnus love you, believe me, it's way more disturbing!
Also, try talking to her in the different towns. Ask her what she knows of the place. Pick the right response and her reaction goes up..(along with other things I'd assume) It's really nothing amazing, but it is rather amusing, and it does appeal to the hopeless romantic..
To get Loghaire in your group you must talk to Randver about the dwarven Stone and Shape (he'll talk about it only if you have a certain ammount of intelligence) and then talk about it with Loghaire so he comes out of his exile. Then he'll be a potential follower. You get him when you return from T'sen Ang and tell him what happened to the BMC. He is a pure melee fighter. And very good too.